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Better Sex and Better Relationships.

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I’ll show you entirely new evolutions of tools, techniques and how to connect in a raw, unfiltered way.

I'll also discuss Erotic Hypnosis, Submissive Training, Clicker Training and D/s relationships.

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Episode Descriptions

How to Improve Your Hypnotic Voice

I'll cover a number of techniques to improve your hypnotic voice.

How to Fix a Lowered Sense of Deservedness - Part 1

I'll cover a number of techniques to help with a common problem - that of a Trainee self-sabotaging their progress through a lowered sense of deserveness.

How to Fix a Lowered Sense of Deservedness - Part 2

I'll cover a number of techniques to help with a common problem - that of a Trainee self-sabotaging their progress through a lowered sense of deserveness.

Creating and Using Text Commands

I'll cover a number of techniques and details, by the end you'll know how to create, use and enjoy text commands with your partner.

The Use of Mirrors

Powerful, evocative and deeply useful - I'll cover several techniques on using mirrors to aid brainwashing and create deeply powerful change.

How to Learn Erotic Hypnosis

This content is in need of a refresh, see the Website for an updated checklist. Probably the most common question asked, here I'll cover a very solid pathway to proficiency.

Workshop - How to Train Your Submissive

Theres a lot of printable handouts and templates that go with this, check the Downloads Folder on the Website. This is the full and complete recording of one of the in-person classes I've taught on the subject of Training Submissives.

Dirty Talking and Massive Orgasms

With everyone stuck indoors, phone sex is making a huge comeback. A thorough explanation of the way I turn conversations sexual, and use trance to create connection, arousal and massive orgasms.

Basics of Submissive Training

I'll cover the basics of Submissive Training - Erotic Hypnosis, Operant Conditioning and Conscious Habit Techniques. Training your submissive is a complex process, if you'd like to do it - get in touch with me directly. This is an introduction to the philosophy, tools and a general outline of how to do it, incorporating a realistic, practical approach.

Structural Enhancements to Trigger Methodology

Some subtle and powerful enhancements to Trigger Creation and use in Training.

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Female Orgasm - The 12 Types

There are twelve distinct types of female orgasmic response. Here I will cover them all, in detail including how to give them, the order and process to use and how to overcome pitfalls and work with your partner to make the sex fantastic. I also mention the Betty Martin 3 Minute Game, cover troubleshooting and a bunch of other stuff.

Two Phrases for Better Sex + Communicating Fantasies

There are twelve distinct types of female orgasmic response. "More" and "You're so good at that" - two phrases that work wonders, as well as a simple three-step-process for learning to communicate fluidly and easily about your deeper desires to your partner. Thorough and engaging.

Three Core Tools

The best tools for mastering Erotic Hypnosis, Operant Conditioning, and Sex - The HLSS Cards, The Training Game and The 3 Minute Game. I'll discuss these in detail and share some thoughts on Kink, Mistakes to Avoid and what can be done to improve the state of the world.

The Making Friends Kit - UPDATED

UPDATED AND EXPANDED. Some simple and valuable tools for making friends in any place, with anyone.

How to create Recordings

Instructions on creating hypnotic audio files as a gift to your lovers, your partners and to practice and improve your skills as a hypnotist.

The Three Levels of Difficulty in Training a Submissive

How do you know which techniques to use, and in what order? I'll outline that here, and give clarity on how to scale up training processes to deal with multiple submissives.

Hour Long Orgasms or Orgasms are a State of Mind

Who doesn't like more satisfying orgasms? Shouldn't your release into bliss mean something to your partner? A step-by-step, super easy process to follow to extend the female orgasm (or a male hypnotically-induced orgasm) out to an hour and then as long as you want it, while intensifying the intensity and level of pleasure. Also some thoughts on my philosophy around orgasms.

You Must Allow Them to Give Back

When will you choose to accept a gift? What kinds of problems can happen when the D is not able to allow themselves to receive? I examine a recent relationship of mine and talk about some of the reasons why it ended, and set up a step by step process for D and S types to go through to build their ability to receive and accept themselves, their deeper nature and their ability to give while maintaining a healthy relationship.

Technique - The Book of Proof

An extremely simple and powerful technique to aid in the conscious empowerment of an individual through raising their self-esteem and sense of deservedness.

Technique - The Book of Master

A simple and powerful template for making casual play sessions more meaningful, as well as deepening the intimacy of a longer term relationship and as a template and self examination exercise for discovering more about yourself in a simple and fun way.

Poly - Effective Techniques for Dealing With Jealousy

I present several unconventional and highly effective techniques for managing jealousy.

Personal - Creation and Power

What is the difference between being a Good Dom, and being Good at being Dominant? (there is a MASSIVE difference). What does it mean to be create, and how does philosophy and intention affect that? This is more of a meta-episode, I discuss some recent thoughts and about a dozen different topics in no particular order.

BDSM / Kink Contracts 2.0

BDSM Contracts fucking suck. They are utterly unfit for purpose, and needed to be completely overhauled in order to facilitate the creation of deeper, more intense, more compatible relationships. So I did.

Technique - The Things I Like List

A very simple, easy to use technique for defining how your submissive can give some value back into your relationship and how you as a dominant can better communicate your needs.

Core Beliefs - Why they Matter, How they are Formed and How to Effectively Restructure Them in the Training of Yourself and your Submissive

I talk about the critical and understated importance of core belief systems, and present an effective mechanism for rewriting them for both Dominants and Submissives.

Technique - Third Person Speech Control and Usage of Disassociation

I talk about the usage and optimization of third person speech for the intended disassociation of your submissive partner in order to assist with moving them through difficult or challenging training exercises, or simply for fun or as a core part of your relationship.

Technique - Renaming

I talk about how to use renaming to help to create change within a submissive (can also be applied to a Dominant). I'll talk about the very dangers of a technique called the Global Suggestion and of Parts in general. I talk about the dangers of feminism in a relationship, the dangers of techniques that imply or create alternate "parts" and about the critical importance of Integration and the necessity of long term planning when designing changes.

Validation vs The Act vs What It Means - A Critical Distinction

In this lesson I will examine a very critical distinction that is often overlooked and is the cause of very much pain and dysfunctional behavior. I will also present a simple solution to the problem of validation involving time specific blanket consent.

30 PDL & The Strategic and Tactical Usage of Bells

I'll discuss the usage of bells and auditory stimuli in the effective training of submissives.

Technique - A Super Simple Tool for Assessing the Health of Your Relationship

I talk about two simple criteria for assessing the health of your relationship, and discuss some of my criticism around how the Erotic Hypnosis "Community" handles Education and how that marginalises people worldwide. Some of my criticisms. I have many, many more.

32 A Simple Security Stack for Kinksters to Help Protect Your Identity

I will present a simple set of security software, some social rules,and a process for protecting your personal information. I'll also discuss a little about how the HypnoKink "Community" here in Australia completely fails to fulfill any of the basic requirements of being a functional community and why some of these social rules came about.

33 Slave Skills - Cleaning a Hotel Room

I talk about why Hotels are great for training submissives, and present a simple process for cleaning a Hotel room when you leave.

34 Intention and Fear - A Two Step Process for Creation and Connection

An extremely simple discussion about a technique I've been using a lot to rapidly build connections and accomplish goals. I use this pretty much every hour of every day.

035 The Slavery Equation

A way of describing the Ideal Slavegirl in a single sentence that is simple, elegant, and actionable.

036 Bracketing - A Highly Effective Brainwashing Protocol

I outline a simple, highly effective daily brainwashing routine that can be easily adapted to yourself, or to instruct and teach a partner, either in-person or at a distance. I'll also describe content, suggest some resources and highlight the principles behind it's effective design.

037 The Book Of Praise

A concept very similar to the Book of Proof, but a little more fleshed out and with more detail around it. Similar intentions.

038 Personal - What Is It That I Actually Do - Part 1 - Love

More of a look into me as a person than anything else. A episode that I recorded a few months ago as part of an experimental ntrospection exercise I've developed. Part of a multi-part series around why I actually produce all of this content.

039 A Radical Rethinking Of Both Submissives And Slaves

How to change submissives into slaves, and slaves into submissives and the higher forms of both that evolve when this is done. A structural rethinking of fundamental concepts of service and servitude.

040 The Submissive Operators Manual

A simple, printable guide to how to drive and use your submissive for mutual pleasure, as well as an explanation on how to use it but it's pretty self explanatory.

041 Behavioral Modification - Creating Vastly Superior Conditioned Reinforcers for Training

A massive improvement to conventional conditioned reinforcers.

042 Building a Website + Resources Folder + Mailing List + Store - For Content Creators

A surprisingly thorough look at building a Static Site, or a Wordpress Site, along with how to put together all the components of what I've built and possible alternatives.

043

Making and Publishing a Podcast - For Content Creators

I cover the software and processes for publishing your own podcast on Hypnokink or on any topic.

044 Presenting A Radical Hypnokink Education Initiative

Show notes are HERE Hypnokink Education is fundamentally broken, I present the nature of the
problem and several effective solutions. Find more resources at MindKink.net

046 Creation And Timing Of Effective Brainwashing Material

I discuss a crucial and often overlooked aspect of effectively creating and using hypnotic audios.

047 Basic Communications Security - Share This

An extremely important episode, I outline a secure stack for kinksters to keep your communications private.

048 The Neccessity Of Training And Difference Between Specialised And General Training

There is a difference between general baseline training and specialised training for a particular purpose, we'll discuss this and how to do it.

049 Mindblowingly Intense - The Cardboard Tube As The Best Sex Toy For Hypnotists

This is a real hidden gem, the use of the cardboard tube to create super intense ASMR tingles.

050 Extreme Basics Of Ds Dynamic And Relationship Design - Initial Version

This is a deep and complex topic, so I help you to make sense of it. This is a really important episode which pretty much applies to everybody.

051 Enthusiasm Is The Hottest Thing And It Is What You Should Be Training For

There is a critical distinction to make between training for a behaviour and training for WANTING that behaviour, here is why you should be doing the second thing.

52 The 3 Minute Game + Getting To No + Training Game - Powerful Techniques For Building Connections

Part of the Rapid Connections Toolkit, a concept that I've been developing lately to help people to connect deeply and meaningfully with others.

053 How To Create Psychological Safety For Extremely Deep Intimate Connections

An extremely important and widely applicable episode where I discuss the exact techniques to create extremely deep and emotionally intense connections.

054 Basics Of International Scheduling And Communications

I discuss the specific tools and techniques I use to arrange international communications in my relationships.

[055] How To Find Hypnokink Partners And Connect With Them

A simple, practical system for connecting with potential Hypnokink Partners.

[056] Anal Sex Training Improved

Traditional Anal Training is extremely deficient in several areas that lead many submissives to giving up on this, and then missing out on all the amazing pleasure and connection it can bring. I fix this by redically overhauling anal training and presenting simple, clear and effective processes for improving it.

[057] CLASS - Maximum Effect Scene Construction and Execution

A recent class I taught on several new techniques for maximising the impact, effectiveness and intensity of ANY scene that you build.

[058] CLASS - Ds Relationship Design Part 1

A multi-part series going into extreme detail on how to design a healthy, sustainable and fun Ds relationship.

[059] CLASS - Ds Relationship Design Part 2

A multi-part series going into extreme detail on how to design a healthy, sustainable and fun Ds relationship.

[060] Blindfolds and How to Use Them to Maximise Intensity

Blindfolds are a tremendously effective tool to create intensity, connection and trust. I discuss their use, creation, and how to combine them effectively with erotic brainwashing techniques.

[061] The Three Primary Motivators of Submission

Devotional, Transactional and Positional - I examine the three primary motivators (not to be confused with Reinforcers) of the average submissive or a slavegirl. It's an important topic and a critical understanding.

[062] The Two Requirements for Orgasmic Response

Some kind of stimulation (mental, physical, emotional, etc) and some kind of surrender to someone or something - these are the two requirements for orgasm. In this episode I will cover why orgasm is simple, easy and how to can be used to train your submissive more effectively.

[063] Clitoral Orgasms - You Deserve Something Deeper

Clitoral Orgasms are are a good place to start, but there is more to explore. I discuss how how your biologically female orgasms are more varied, more intense and more meaningful and why you ABSOLUTELY should not settle for just clitoral orgasms from your body.

[064] The Four Stages Model and its use in training a Slavegirl

A massively superior overview of the training process, which can also easily be used to asses current proficiancy and measure progress, with an emphasis on simplicity of application, teaching and action. A large improvement to the "Unconcious Competance" model.

[065] Honorifics and Terms of Address - Major Structural Improvements

Honorifics and Terms of Address are beautiful and emotionally charged ways of showing your affection for someone, the nature of your relationship, or your desires. I present several significant and major structural improvements to their creation and usage with the intention of maximising the intensity of your relationship and interaction.

[066] Identity Versus Behaviour - Import Notes for Restructuring Both

If you are having issues training a behaviour, it may be caused by an identity issue. I discuss when and how this occurs, and what can be done in these situations to resolve the issue and allow you both to move forward and enjoy a deeper relationship and a more connective one.

[067] Threesomes - Suggestions for Creating Intense and Satisfying Experiences

Threesomes - Play a variation of the Three Minute Game and if you are a couple and it's your first several times, hire a professional to ensure things move smoothly in the right direction. I also discuss sexual health and planning lgistics as well as how to broaden your horizons.

[068] HannahTheScribe - Endorsing High Quality Educators

I discuss and recommend the work of an exceptional educator - HannahTheScribe and why you should buy her stuff.

[069] Major Structural Improvements to Rope Education

Rope education is fundamentally flawed and this has hurt hundreds of thousands of people by convincing them that every one of the joys that you can so easily experience with rope - freedom, joy, connection, passion, intensity, power, control, etc - is just ... not for them. Denied competant education in rope due to misstructured classes, these people are denied the joy of rope. Lets stop fucking about and fix this already. I discuss the problem, and then propose a comprehensive solution for educators to contemplate.

[070] Asexuality - Understanding the Formation and Presenting Effective Solutions

Asexuality is essentially a kind of depression that affects the sex drives and morivation of an individual and causes immense harm to Women (and Men). In this episode I will discuss how it is formed and simple, clear and effective strategies to resolve it and begin to enjoy the kind of sexual adventures that you deserve to have. Because you do :-)

[071] Inspiration 1 - A Certain Magical Universe and its Use In Having Amazing Sex

Understanding your partners kinks can result in some magical experiences. I discuss exactly how to use a certain magical universe to create triggers around complete obedience, pleasure and bliss for the purpose of having better and more amazing sex with erotic hypnosis and conditioning.

[072] Inspiration 2 - Bioshock and Using it as a Tool

CONTAINS SPOILERS for the video game Bioshock (the original). We discuss the usage and implementation of extreme control and a fun way to incorporate a new trigger into your sex life.

[073] CLASS - Basics of Brainwashing

Essentially an update of my earlier class How to Train your Submissive, with an increased emphaiss and description on how to create recordings for use in teaching your partner.

[074] Building an Effective Personal Portable Training Kit

I describe a super fun and effective portable training kit, with all the useful tools you might need to create maximal intensity in your training results. I've wanted to make this one for a while and recording it was a lot of fun.

[075] Erotic Behavioural Design - An Overview

The episodes content has been updated in the episode 073 Basics of Brainwashing Class. HOWEVER this episode is different in two major ways - its application is broader, covering material on concious habit design that has been removed from the class. It also has a LOT of content on the last two thirds of me talking about problems I've overcome and mistakes in my relationships that I've made. Deeply candid and personal.

[076] Some Simple Observations on Training Submissives

I address some of the common problems that occur that can cause a breakdown of communications between a Submissive and her Dominant, and provide simple solutions. This is not a comprehensive analysis of this topic, I am working on that.

[077] Some Thoughts on Relationship Conflicts - Contracts - Accountability - Punishment

This one is a weird one and I'm not entirely certain it's the most useful form it could be in. Take all of this one, as with all my work, with critical thinking. It's essentially a stream-of-conciousness conversation I had with a friend who is going through some things at the moment.

[078] Beginning to Introduce a System for Submissives to Improve Dating

I have a lot of female friends, and they often struggle to find high quality male partners so over the last few months I've been testing a system to fix that. Basically, it's "how to date, for submissives". This audio is a small part of it, the complete system will be released as a series of episodes later, but enjoy this for now.

[079] Introduction to Improving Subject Responsiveness

There is some content on this vitally important topic, but not nearly enough. This is a part of a conversation where I discuss a piece of a system I've been developing to massively improve the responsiveness of Submissives. Theres some good concepts here but it isn't a complete system, keep an eye out for that on this podcast in the future.

[080] A Minor Rant about Common Problems

More of a major rant, really. This one was an audio message to a personal friend, which starts off fast and doesn't slow down.It's part of my (larger, more thorough) criticisms of the mainstream hypnokink "community" (it's in quotes because it doesn't really exist, I'll explain why in the episode) and I present some of the simple solutions to these deep, structural failings.

[081] The Iron Law of Relationships Part 1 and Part 2

"If you can't be happy without them, you can never be fully happy with them" and "If they can't be happy without you, then they will never be fully happy with you". I provide clear advice to inform the healthy selection of a worthy partner and to avoid common pitfalls in Ds partner selection, as well as highlighting risk factors for dependency and present effective mitigations.

[082] The Menu - A Tool For Easier Play And Intense Connections

Get more of the play you want, with the people that are worthy of you. I present The Menu, a simple tool for connecting and explaining your interests, effectively and effortlessly synchronising your desires and leading into fun and intense connection, while providing a clearer structure to both Doms and Subs.

Tags: Ds, Tool

[083] Major Improvements To Negotiation By Use Of Whitelisting

Traditional Kink Negotiations are impractical, give a false sense of safety, encourage evasive behaviour and tell you very little if nothing about shared, common desires. I will present a radically more effective approach to simplify kink scene and relationship negotiation, facilitate massive connection and the creation of shared meaning, and make negotiations actually fun and enjoyable for a change.

Tags: Ds, Tool, Negotiation, Hypnokink

[084] Using Uncensored AI LLM's to Create Ideas for Ds, Characters and Scenes

Large Language Models (LLM's)can provide an excellent starting point for roleplaying, scene creation and immersive experiences with your partner. I'll explain in a very simple way how to install and access uncensored LLM's and provide several example prompt structures and ideas to create your scenes and maximise intensity.

Tags: Ds, AI, LLM, Large Language Model

[085] A Brief Introduction To Using Role Playing Systems For Ds Character Design

I discuss the use of three Role Playing Game (RPG) character creation systems and how they map onto Ds roleplay - specifically Dungeons and Dragons, The Elder Scrolls and Fallout's S.P.E.C.I.A.L System.

Tags: Ds, Role Playing Game, RPG

[086] Dismissing vs Reinforcing - the two distinct versions of aftercare

Aftercare can be used to reduce the effect of a scene, or intentionally to escalate it and increase the intensity. I explain the difference, when and how exactly to go about this.

Tags: Aftercare

[087] The Single Tool Scene And A Pathway for Mastering Hypnokink Skills

Restricting yourself to using a single tool or rope tie for the entirety of a scene is a effective way to build a deep familiarity with all of the possible uses of a tool. I discuss this idea in both hypnokink and other examples and also the idea of standards of progression for hypnokink skills.

[089] Mini-Scenes And Their Use In Increasing Trance Responsiveness In A Subject

Prefacing your formal scene with a simple fractal representation of the scene produces extremely deep responsiveness in your subject during the second scene, and accelerates the process of conditioning and responsiveness.

Tags: Scene, Conditioning, Hypnokink

[090] Who Decides Is What Determines Dominance or Submission and It's Implications For Ds Relationships

The person in control of a scene or relationship is the single person who decides. There is only one Captain of a relationship, and many have emailed me regarding their frustrations with their partner claiming the benefits of being in a Ds relationship while not actually transferring real authority, and I discuss this as well, and mitigations.

Tags: Ds, Relationship Design